Grief During the Holidays: Making Space for Your Heart in a Season of Emotion
- Dr. Alicia C. Moore
- Dec 18, 2025
- 3 min read
Gentle Support, Honest Emotions, and Permission to Move at Your Own Pace
During the holidays, grief can feel sharper, even if you’ve been coping well throughout the year. Traditions that once brought joy may now stir sadness. Family gatherings may feel incomplete. Even simple things like hearing a holiday song or seeing a favorite recipe can bring unexpected tears.
If you’ve ever wondered why the holidays feel different now, why the season seems to move faster than your heart can keep up, you’re not alone. Grief has its own rhythm, and it rarely aligns with the pace or expectations of December.
At Passionate Path Counseling, we believe that grief during the holidays does not mean you are “doing it wrong.” It means your love is still present. Healing in this season isn’t about deleting the ache; it’s about making space for it alongside moments of connection, rest, and remembrance.
Why Awareness Matters
Holiday grief often hides behind polite smiles, quiet conversations, or the pressure to be “in the spirit.” Many people feel unsure if it’s acceptable to talk about their sadness during a season that celebrates joy, togetherness, and gratitude.
But awareness helps remove that pressure. It gives grieving individuals permission to be honest about their emotional experience and to be met with support rather than misunderstanding.
Common experiences of holiday grief include:
Feeling overwhelmed by memories or reminders
Struggling with emotional whiplash; joy one moment, tears the next
Guilt for not feeling festive or for enjoying moments without your loved one
Increased exhaustion or the desire to withdraw
Missing traditions you shared or avoiding ones that feel too painful
These feelings do not make you ungrateful or difficult. They are natural responses when a holiday season meets an grieving heart.
Supporting Yourself Through Holiday Grief
Navigating grief during the holidays requires tenderness, flexibility, and permission to set your own pace.
Here are some ways to support yourself through this season:
Acknowledge what you miss. Naming your grief doesn’t make it heavier; it makes it clearer and less isolating.
Adjust traditions with compassion. You may keep some, skip some, or create new ones entirely. All choices are valid.
Let yourself feel both joy and sadness. Grief doesn’t cancel out joy. Joy doesn’t erase grief. They can coexist.
Build in intentional rest. Emotional overwhelm can show up suddenly. Give yourself room to pause.
Seek connection. Talk to someone who understands, whether a friend, a support group, or a therapist.
Healing doesn’t mean forcing yourself into the holiday spirit; it means honoring your heart exactly as it is.
You Don’t Have to Navigate This Season Alone
Holiday grief can feel heavy, but you are not alone. Support, understanding, and compassionate spaces are available to help you move through this time with more ease and clarity.
Resources for Support and Connection:
988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline: Call or text 988 anytime for emotional support.
National Institute of Mental Health (NIMH): www.nami.org – Mental health education and support groups
GriefShare: www.griefshare.org – Support groups and holiday-focused grief resources
What’s Your Grief: www.whatsyourgrief.com – Articles, courses, and community for those grieving
At Passionate Path Counseling, we walk alongside you as you navigate the holidays with compassion, honesty, and gentle care. You deserve a season that honors your grief and your healing, one tender step at a time.
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